ABC Wednesday-L for Love

As I hinted in previous post ABC Wednesday letter K, this week for ABC Wednesday letter L, I will write down some random thoughts that always come into my mind, something related to “LOVE”

• I don’t believe in so called unconditional love. We love God, because we believe in God, belief is our condition. We always say we love our kids and our parents unconditionally, because they are our parents, they are our kids, that is condition. We fall in love with someone, we are willing to do anything for him (her), we though this is unconditional love, but it is not. The person must be loveable, the attraction is the condition.

• Love can be lost one day. There is nothing is lasting forever in this world. The person you love will die one day, the person who loves you so much may leave you alone in the darkness. Anything can happen, knowing this, we will have a greater appreciation of what we have. Think how lucky we are to have someone to love or be loved by someone, we won’t take too much advantage in life

• Say “I love you.” I know it is not easy especially to our Chinese people. But I still feel this is the best way to express our love. Say “ I love you” when you really mean it, it will warm any coolest soul. Learn to express our own feeling is the best way to carry out better communication in any relationship. It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. So don’t be afraid to say “I love you.”

• Free your love. Accept the people you love as they are, and not who you want them to be. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Don’t insist that only your way is the best and demand the your love one to change. Give some space to each other and keep a little distance especially between the married couple, this is one way to keep you love fresh.

• Don’t expect love in return.  Giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Everyone has a different way of showing his or her love for you; you will be disappointed if you expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.

• Love yourself even no one loves you in this world.  When love comes to the end, let it go rather than holding on. If someone doesn’t appreciate you, don’t blame yourself are not good enough, just because you are not his/her the other half. Love yourself and believe you will be the best in someone’s eyes. Let go the feeling of being hurt, love yourself and you will be able to fall in love again in life. Every single tree is unique in the forest but you must open your eyes to appreciate its beauty in its own way.

• Give more of your love to your children who depend on you.  Because it is you to bring him/her into this world, you have the responsibility.

• Love someone who you feel comfortable with - not just someone to make love to. Come to the end, show your love and affection for your loved ones with this traditional calligraphy style Chinese character for love symbol. If you understand a bit of Chinese, I hope you like my Chinese characters.

Chinese Character "Love" Button

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